Fear in relationships: when the body closes up before the conversation even starts
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It feels like "it's all in the past," but next to a man the body tenses up again. This session isn't about advice like "just trust him" — it's about what sits deeper than words
How it usually goes
A person already "understands it all" in their head, but up close the fear, the closing-off, the heavy past experience switches on again
A session-consultation with Ruslan — a one-hour online meeting: working through a specific subconscious theme
What people come with
People come with a fear of closeness, a feeling that "the body won't let me in," a recurring pattern in relationships
If this is about you
- My mind wants it, but my body pushes it away
- After past experience, trust hasn't come back
- Tired of hearing "just let it go"
How it works
Book an online session → a 60-minute call → agree on the topic beforehand → after the session, further work can be discussed separately if needed. Confirmation comes via WhatsApp
How to prepare
Put into words one situation that keeps repeating. Headphones and a quiet place are a must — online only
Frequently asked questions
Is this psychotherapy?
No. This is an original practice of session work with the subconscious, not medical or psychotherapeutic care
How much does it cost?
Session-consultation — 33,000 ₸ for 60 minutes. No discounts on this page
Can I come in person in Astana?
No, sessions are online only — from Astana or anywhere else
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